I kind of have an issue: Too many things on my plate.

[Sgt_Pepper]

So I worked through the afternoon and got let out early evening.
Crummy weather, crummy day, etc.
I was kind of beat.
My roommate tells me while I'm heating up dinner that my girlfriend Holly had called during the afternoon.
Funny. She knew I was working and didn't try my cell.
I called her back. She sounded distracted and a little far out. Asked me to meet her at a particular restaurant, a hangout of ours.
Ditched my muddy, leftover spaghetti and left.

Sat down and ordered. She was flustered and spacier than usual.
"So what's up? You look like someone died"

So she's now deciding to move to Phoenix Arizona to live with her cousin and go to school down there. Planning on going down in February.

Wanted to know if I'd go with her.
If she would have asked me about five months ago, I would have said yes, but I finally settled on a direction and I'm just getting established up here.

We ended up leaving rather quickly. Told her I'd call her tomorrow, blah blah.

We've been good friends for ages, and have been dating for about two years now and it's been great. She's super chill, down to earth and just an all around amazing person.

I dont really know what I'm going to do.
Fucked up thing is, I've been contemplating an engagement for the past month or so now.
Blegh blegh blegh blegh.

Whine whine whine.
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Glockenspiel.. Look it up.

[Sir DarkMagic]

That sucks dude, ain't there anyway of convincing her to stay?
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[De Mask]

I don't have any experience in this sort of situation, so it'd be stupid to give you advice. I wish the best for you two though.
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[F.E. Raven]

Okay... seriously if you love her, you have to go with her. If you don't you will regret for the rest of your life.

You said you are " just getting established up here". So, why not leave now before you get fully established? You don't have too much to lose on, if you understand what I am trying to say.

You only get one chance with love buddy. School and work can be done anytime in life, but your chances with this one girl will end forever if you let it.
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